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SLOW DOWN AND ENJOY CHRISTMAS

By Jenny Grainger

 

SLOW DOWN AND ENJOY CHRISTMAS” say the traffic alert signs over the main motorways around Dublin at the moment.  Obviously the traffic authorities are using this as a road safety warning but, when I saw it, I was immediately struck by the other implications behind it.


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With only 10 days until Christmas, the shops are full of frantic consumers bustling and stressing themselves out and spending trying to make everything perfect for the festive period, I just want to shout at them –

SLOW DOWN AND ENJOY CHRISTMAS”.

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CREATE YOUR IDEAL YEAR

08/12/2011 11:38

 

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO CREATE IN YOUR LIFE IN 2012?

by Jenny Grainger 

 

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I write this on a mid-November day and I am sitting in my swimsuit enjoying the warmth of the Andalucian sun on my skin.  The sky is clear blue, the temperature is in the mid 20s, we have just had a delicious lunch on the patio and I am very, very happy.  What a contrast today is to yesterday when Co Down remained dark and the driving rain kept us indoors with the heating on at Chantry Hill all day.  And yet it was exactly this type of contrast which helped me to create today's experience of warmth and bliss.  


 How so?

  

For many, many years, as a dedicated sun-worshipper, I moaned and groaned about the weather on our little island and how wet and unpredictable it is.  Then, when I started to study and 'live' the Law of Attraction, I realised that this unhappiness or disatisfaction was telling me that what I really desired was to spend lots of time in a warm, reliable, bright climate.  I also recognised that I feel more energised, relaxed and full of well-being when I am in the sun.  I just

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FEEL THE FEAR AND DO IT ANYWAY!

by Jenny Grainger

 

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What a month it has been!  I feel as if I am in the centre of a whirlwind at the moment and that my life has been sucked up by the storm and is whirling around at high speed around me.  One of my favourite phrases is that "The Universe loves speed" and, WOW, has that been proven to be right in the last 1o days or so.  I am in the middle of another period of huge change and upheaval and it is all happening really fast.  More information will follow when everything is finalised but, believe me, none of this was part of my preconceived idea of how my life 'should' be unfolding this year! 

 

However, my Vision Statement for the last few months has been very straightforward.....

"I am creating a simple, joyful, healthy life doing the work I love doing!"  

So I have been repeating this statement, following inspired action and surrendering more and more deeply to the organising intelligence that causes the sun to rise, the stars to come out, the seasons to change and me to evolve and grow.  And, trusting, trusting, trusting! 

A few years ago I was deeply impacted when I read a line from "A Course in Miracles" which says

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SABOTAGE & WAR

19/08/2011 12:07

SABOTAGE AND WAR

by Eoin Scolard

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You know what’s right for you.

You know what’s good for you.

Yes you do.

We all do.


Physically - we know when we eat too much, drink too much, exercise too little.

Emotionally - we know when we are holding back truth, holding in resentment, holding back love.

Mentally – we know when we are thinking negatively, judging, criticising, belittling.

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The First Step to Freedom

28/07/2011 15:36

 

The first step to freedom is to recognize that you’re already free. The only thing that stops you from being free is your fear. And we all have our fears. We fear to say what we need to say, we fear to feel what is already there inside us, we fear to feel the fear itself.  Its like a merry go round that we’ve already jumped on and we don’t even realise we’re on it ! The great Meister Eckhart said very beautifully, "God is not attained by a process of addition to anything in the soul, but by a process of subtraction." You don't do anything to be free, you drop something. Then you're free.
 There’s a story told of  an Irish prisoner called Mick who dug a tunnel under the prison wall and managed to escape. He comes out right in the middle of a school playground where little children are playing. Of course, when Mick emerges from the tunnel he can't restrain himself anymore and begins to jump up and down, crying, "I'm free, I'm free, I'm free! A little girl there looks at him scornfully and says, "That's nothing. I'm four."
 

We’ve forgotten our true nature - it’s such a small thing and yet it’s such a huge thing.Perhaps its time to embrace the truth that its only you, your own fears, your own beliefs, that keep you from being free. So take out a pen some day and jot down three things that keep you from being free. What might they be ?  Have a look at them and challenge the thought patterns behind them – you’ll find they’re based on fear.

And if you think that circumstances need to change first, or the other person needs to change first - then you’re not understanding. We’re already free. I recognized that many years ago when I found myself blaming others for my experience of life. Its like the guy who visits the doctor and tells him what he is suffering from. The doctor says, "Ok dok, I've understood your symptoms. Do you know what I will do? I will prescribe a medicine for your wife !" The guy replies, "Thank you very much, Doctor, that makes me feel much better."

Isn't that absurd? But that's the way I used to think and for most of us, its hiow we do think. We always thinks we'll feel better if somebody else changes. We're suffering because we’re asleep and unaware, but we're thinking, "How wonderful life would be if somebody else would change; how wonderful life would be if my husband changed, if my wife changed, if my boss changed, if my circumstances changed." We always want something or someone else to change so that we will feel good. But hang on a second - even if your wife changes or your husband changes, what does that do to you? You're just as vulnerable as before; you're just as unaware as before; you're just as asleep as before. You are the one who needs to change, who needs to take medicine. You keep insisting, "I feel good because the world is right." Wrong! The world is right because I am free to feel good

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What You Focus on Grows

18/07/2011 15:48

 

WHAT YOU FOCUS ON GROWS

By Jenny Grainger


law-of-attraction-money-magnetHave you ever started to think about something you are not happy with only to find that it seems to get worse and worse the more you think about it?  For example, you might have some debt and the more you think about the debt the more stressed and anxious you become.  I used to worry myself sick about money because I was constantly focusing on the debt.  The more I focused on it, the more debt I accrued and the more I worried about it.  Now I have a wonderful habit of writing down every single penny of income that comes to me each day and expressing gratitude for it.  And, guess what?  This simple act of refocusing my mind has attracted  constantly increasing income streams to me.

road_rageI’m sure we have all been stuck in a traffic jam when we are in a rush to get somewhere.  We focus on the clock ticking.  We focus on the traffic not moving.  We focus on being late.  We get more and more stressed about a situation which we have absolutely no control over.  Next time you find yourself stuck in traffic, why not see if you can shift your focus away from the stress to something completely different.  For instance, you might take a few deep breaths and realise that you have some unexpected ‘me time’ in which you can relax and experience a bit of peace or you might use the extra time to listen to an uplifting CD or visualise one of your desires manifesting.  Why not use the time to focus on something which you really want to see growing, rather than what you don’t want to grow?

We all have the ability to refocus our thoughts.  You are no different from me in that respect.  The

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YOU ARE THE POWER IN YOUR WORLD

by Jenny Grainger


Only eight years ago, I was smoking 30 cigarettes a day, drinking heavily, in a very challenging marriage, stressed out with with my job as a TV Producer, in serious debt and overweight.  My GP prescribed me anti-depressants to help me with the overwhelming emotional outbursts which I was struggling with.  I couldn't sleep and I couldn't stop crying.  I felt completely lost, exhausted and directionless.

 

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